Dear Friends,
Usually I blog about church matters, social issues, or upcoming Conference opportunities. Today, though, I am sharing my personal reflections about the death of one whom many call a national treasure.
I was in an appointive cabinet meeting when my husband Lee sent me the text. “Dolly Parton died.” I immediately texted back, “What? I’m so sad about this.” As the day wore on, it became clear that many people had a similar reaction.
Though I did not know Dolly personally, I admired much about her. I am talking about more than her musical skills, winsome persona, and many talents. I have been most impressed by her generous spirit, genuine love for others, authentic Christian faith, and ability to connect with people from all walks of life.
She seemed equally comfortable talking with Presidents and everyday people, those who agreed with her politically and those who did not, adults, teenagers, and children, country music stars, rock stars, and everyone in between. She was real, accessible, and a positive presence for those near and far who were touched by her music and life.
And she loved her Appalachian roots, a quality that those of us living in the region especially appreciate. She reminded the world of the resilience, loyalty, creativity, work ethic, determination, and courage of many Appalachians.
I am sure Dolly Parton was not perfect. (None of us are!) I am equally certain that she was a bridge-builder in a society that is often polarized, a healer in a world with lots of brokenness, and a kind-hearted soul who exhibited extraordinary generosity in a variety of situations.
My initial response to Dolly Parton’s passing was sadness. However, as the news has sunk in and I’ve reflected on her life, the sadness has turned to gratitude. I am grateful for who she was and all the good she did.
And I am inspired to be a little more generous, loving, and authentic as I connect with the various people who cross my path. After all, our world needs more bridge-builders, healers, kind-hearted people, and generous spirits.
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Debra Wallace-Padgett is bishop of The West Virginia Conference and The Holston Conference of The United Methodist Church. Since 2024, she has served as president of the World Methodist Council.