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Science has confirmed what scripture points to – there is a peace that surpasses all understanding. This peace, researchers have found, emanates from deep within the human heart. It is both measurable and reproducible.
I suppose that’s not too surprising. The Biblical traditions equate the heart with feelings like love, peace, and joy.
Here’s what is surprising: this peace has the capacity to surpass all misunderstanding, too.
Contagious Emotions
You know how being around angry or nasty people can put you in a bad mood? And how laughter is infectious? Or how a smile can travel from one person to another?
Turns out that’s not just coincidence. It’s the heart’s own emotional intelligence.
Research has shown that emotions emit an energetic wavelength. When our hearts radiate emotions with higher wavelengths – such as appreciation, kindness, compassion, positive regard, joy, delight, and love and peace – we generate more of that into the world. When we radiate emotions with lower wavelengths – judgment, fear, worry, mistrust, suspicion, anger, hate and revenge – we literally create more of that in the world. Makes sense, doesn’t it?
Now here’s the cool part: these electromagnetic waves have the capacity to influence others, and to draw them in. Just as sunlight is made up of waves of energy which travels through air, turning night to day and warming cold bones – our emotions influence the people around us.
Depending on the feeling we radiate, we can intentionally invite other hearts into either a state of peaceful coherence or a state of jagged non-coherence.
So, what does all this have to do with church?
3 Ways You Can Surpass Misunderstanding
First, as a spiritual leader, it is important to make sure your heart is aligned with the energies of peace. The more spiritually grounded and coherent the leader’s heart is – that is, aligned with the peace that passes all understanding – the greater your capacity to radiate that peace to the people and situations around you. You can make a measurable difference.
Second, as your congregation gathers to pray, remember to expand your corporate focus beyond the immediate prayer concerns of your people. Intentionally radiate peace that passes understanding out into the world. This is important on the days that our world reverberates with misunderstanding – outrage, upset, and random acts of violence. Your congregation’s concentrated focus on heart-based prayer can make a measurable difference on a global scale.
Third, teach your people how to stay grounded in prayerful appreciation of all the good in the world. This appreciative stance increases heart-based coherence at every level of society. Notice what is right with the world. Focus on the divine signs and wonders around you. Highlight miracles.
Next Steps
In this way, you partner with God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit to co-create the highest energies of peace, love, and appreciation in the world. Surprisingly, this is an approach that surpasses all misunderstandings in the world.
If personal peace is hard to come by, consider joining me for my upcoming workshop, Platinum Rule Leadership for Changing Times. Using a personalized Everything DiSC® Workplace profile, we’ll discover how you can bring out the best in people who frustrate you most as well as enhance your leadership skills to defuse tension and misunderstanding. Your registration includes a copy of my new book, Forging a New Path: Moving the Church Forward in a Post-Pandemic World.
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